I guess as a parent we all are trying hard to give the best to our kids. There was a time when I used to think that how could I be a fantastic mum!! 
But trust me with time, I have realized that this is not mathematics that you will do some 2 + 2 calculation. This is a lifelong journey filled with challenges and rewards. There isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. If you ask me, then it is basically a vice-versa process. The way we treat them, they also treat us.
Still, here I am sharing 10 general principles that can help you become a fantastic parent:
- Show Your Love: We all love our kids but we forget to convey that to them. Say ‘I Love You’ once a day, and give them a tight hug. Show them that your love is not dependent on their achievements or behavior. It will help them to feel safe and cherished.
- Spend Quality Time: What I value is the quality, not the quantity. When you are spending time with your kid, put away distractions and give full attention to them. Make eye contact with your little one, listen to them properly, and show interest in their things. One of the important keys to being a fantastic parent.
- Effective Communication: Another major tip to be a fantastic parent is, to communicate openly and honestly with your child. Encourage them to express their thoughts and feelings, and listen actively without judgment.
- Set Boundaries: Establish clear and consistent rules and boundaries. Children thrive when they know what is expected of them, and boundaries provide a sense of security.
- Positive Reinforcement: Praise and reward your kid when they do something good, and give your positive feedback when they make mistakes. It will help them learn to differentiate between good and bad and at the same time they will feel free to share anything and everything with you.
- Lead by Example: As I said, Children learn by observing their parents. Model the behavior and values you want to instill in your child. Be a role model for kindness, empathy, and resilience. It will definitely help you to become a fantastic parent.
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- Foster Independence: Encourage them to make age-appropriate decisions and ask them to solve their own problems. Train them to do little household work as well. You will become one step ahead towards fantastic parenting.
- Provide Support: Be there for your child in times of need. Offer them emotional support, guidance, and reassurance. Let them feel you’re a source of security, comfort, and assistance for them.
- Balance Discipline with Understanding: Discipline is important, but sometimes we become overprotective and unnecessarily strict. You will be a fantastic parent, once you start raising a disciplined child with understanding and empathy. Ideally, you should avoid harsh punishment and instead focus on teaching life lessons.
- Prioritize Self-Care: Taking care of yourself is essential for being a fantastic parent. Make sure you have time for self-care, rest, and relaxation to maintain your physical and emotional well-being.
Parenting is a learning experience, and it’s okay to make mistakes. For me what’s most important is that you’re committed to raising a happy, energetic, and empathetic child and are willing to adapt and grow as a parent over time.
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